
Isn't it interesting to see how different people are? Everyone had different agendas, points of views and personalities. These factors and many others contribute to why it is difficult for a large group of people to come to a collective agreement on an issue. In class, professor Kurpis stated that there were 5 ways in which people react to situations similar to that of the class. These are
1. Compete to win Assertiveness to get one’s own way
2. Avoidance Withdrawal; used when there’s “no chance of winning”
3. Compromise Used with decision making under pressure; all members are equal
4. Accommodation Seeing issue as more important to others than self
5. Collaborating Requires bargaining and negotiation among group
Multiple group insights required
Because the class immediately turned to chaos, I was convinced by a classmate to take action. At first I went into avoidance though I was aware that something had to be done to organize the class. Thanks to the concern shown by my classmate I changed my approach to a collaborating and compromising one. I wanted to let as many people be heard and to somehow get our ideas across to everyone (including the professor) for evaluation. Honestly I thought as a class, we would not be able to come to an agreement on a single solution, however to my surprise we were able to successfully come together for a greater cause. .............EVERYONE GIVE YOURSELVES A PAT ON THE BACK! You really deserve it!................=) I think the outcome would have been better if we had some more time to weigh out even more possibilities, however given the amount of time and information, I believe that we accomplished something special.
1. Compete to win Assertiveness to get one’s own way
2. Avoidance Withdrawal; used when there’s “no chance of winning”
3. Compromise Used with decision making under pressure; all members are equal
4. Accommodation Seeing issue as more important to others than self
5. Collaborating Requires bargaining and negotiation among group
Multiple group insights required
Because the class immediately turned to chaos, I was convinced by a classmate to take action. At first I went into avoidance though I was aware that something had to be done to organize the class. Thanks to the concern shown by my classmate I changed my approach to a collaborating and compromising one. I wanted to let as many people be heard and to somehow get our ideas across to everyone (including the professor) for evaluation. Honestly I thought as a class, we would not be able to come to an agreement on a single solution, however to my surprise we were able to successfully come together for a greater cause. .............EVERYONE GIVE YOURSELVES A PAT ON THE BACK! You really deserve it!................=) I think the outcome would have been better if we had some more time to weigh out even more possibilities, however given the amount of time and information, I believe that we accomplished something special.


